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Weddings

An iconic New Jersey wedding destination

Forever begins where the sun meets the sea at Stone Harbor’s only luxury boutique hotel and spa. Celebrate your vows on our breathtaking bayfront lawn with the sunset as your backdrop, in our coastal inspired Sweet Grass Ballroom, or with your toes in the sand right beside the ocean’s waves.

 

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Hot Dates

CUSTOMIZABLE PACKAGE OFFERINGS AND INCENTIVES AVAILABLE FOR THE FOLLOWING DATES

Book one of our wedding hot dates at The Reeds and receive:

Waived site & ceremony fee
Reduced guest count requirements
Reduced package pricing
$500 spa credit

Please know that some dates may be reserved as list is not updated daily. Please call for confirmed real-time availability.

 

 

2024

Friday, September 27

Saturday, September 28

Sunday, October 6

Friday, October 11

Friday, October 25

Saturday, October 26

Saturday, November 9

Friday, November 15

Saturday, November 16

Saturday, December 14

2025

Reduced site and ceremony fee*

Friday, April 4

Saturday, April 5

Friday, April 11

Friday, December 5

Saturday, December 13

*2025 hot date only

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Winter Weddings

Too few know the serenity of a winter beach

Book your winter wedding at The Reeds and receive:

Waived site fee & ceremony fee
$500 spa credit
Upgraded complimentary bayview suite
$10 off package pricing

2025

Saturday, January 18

Friday, February 14

Saturday, March 1

Saturday, March 8

Friday, March 14

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Coastal Chic Weddings

A refined seaside wedding experience

The ceremony

Forever begins where the sun meets the sea at Stone Harbor’s only luxury boutique hotel and spa. Celebrate your vows on our breathtaking bayfront lawn with the sunset as your backdrop in our coastal inspired Sweet Grass Ballroom, or with your toes in the sand right beside the ocean’s waves.

The Cocktail Hour

You said your vows – now it is time to celebrate! Start with a soiree overlooking the bay in a sprawling, highly stylized outdoor space. With a lawn lounge of soft seating, leading to a deck with curated food stations, cocktail tables and a circular bar, under a canopy of market lights, this is the scene to be seen.

The reception

From your first dramatic entrance as a married couple to the time you wave your guests goodbye, the Sweet Grass Ballroom is the most refined celebration space at the shore with its subtle sophistication, and classic coastal design. Using neutral, textured elements inspired by the sea – soft fabrics and driftwood accents blend in perfect harmony leading out to a sprawling covered veranda through a full wall of sliding glass for an indoor-outdoor bayfront reception unlike any other. Simply spectacular… and the perfect backdrop to your special day.

The Complete Experience

Rehearsal Dinner

Kick off your wedding weekend in one of our private bayfront celebration spaces. Whether you are thinking a large scale coastal casual gathering with a clam bake style menu or an exquisite plated dinner for close family members and friends, there are settings and rehearsal dinner menus for any style of event.

Bridal Ready Spa Experience

Reserve the elegantly appointed Bridal Boutique in the Salt Spa, designed with wedding parties in mind, to enjoy picture-perfect wedding day primping and bridal party photography as you sip champagne and anticipate the moment you’ll say, “I do!”

After Party

Take the party next door to the Crew Room to continue the festivities. A private bar-like setting with stunning bay views is the perfect place to party with up to 100 of your late-night guests.

Post Wedding Brunch

Complete your wedding weekend and send off your guests with a memorable waterfront brunch designed to exchange stories about the prior night’s fun and to say their goodbyes.

Stay in Style

Destination weddings are all about sharing in a fully immersive wedding experience with your guests, customized specifically to you. With a block of luxurious accommodations, your guests can stay at The Reeds to enjoy the beach and all that downtown Stone Harbor has to offer, just steps away from all wedding celebrations.

Real Weddings

See how these couple celebrated their special days

“We recently got married and to say that The Reeds exceeded our expectations is an understatement. Every staff member was warm and welcoming, ready to assist in any way possible, and truly made our guests feel at home.”

Andrea F.

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